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Straight answers on prostate pleasure, toys, and health, grouped by topic so you can go deep on the one you came for.

5 Articles

Prostate Toys

How to choose a prostate massager, how to use one, and what to expect when you do.

What You'll Find Here

Everything we've written about prostate toys in one place. Start with the complete guide, then go deeper on choosing a model, getting comfortable with insertion, and what the experience is actually like.

5 Articles

Butt Plugs

Plugs explained straight: how to use one, picking a size and material, sizing up, and when a prostate massager is the better call.

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Everything you've ever wanted to know about butt plugs, stacked neatly in one place.

4 Articles

Cock Rings

What a cock ring does, how to wear one, finding your size, and which type suits you.

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Everything we've written about cock rings in one place. Start with what a cock ring actually does, then get into putting one on, finding your size, picking a type, and knowing when to take it off.

7 Articles

Edging

How to edge solo or with a partner, whether it's bad for you, edging vs. gooning, and how to make the finish hit harder.

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Edging means getting right to the edge of orgasm, backing off, and doing it again before you finally let go. A few rounds of that and the finish hits harder. These guides cover how to edge yourself or a partner, whether it's bad for you, how edging differs from gooning, orgasm denial, and where prostate play fits in.

6 Articles

Fantasy Sex Toys

Tentacle, alien and monster toys for men: how they went mainstream, plug vs. dildo, and the best shapes for prostate play.

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Tentacle, alien, and monster toys started as an internet in-joke. Now plenty of men own one, and the shapes are the reason. Start here for how they went mainstream, plug vs. dildo, what to know before your first monster toy, and which shapes work best for prostate play.

6 Articles

Prostate Cancer

Warning signs, PSA results, home testing, and what a diagnosis means for your sex life. Know your risk before anything shows up.

What You'll Find Here

Prostate cancer is one of the most common cancers in men, and early on it usually causes no symptoms at all. So waiting until you feel something isn't a plan. Knowing your risk and getting checked is. This page is for information only. Talk to a healthcare provider about any concerns with your health.

4 Articles

Prostate Massage

External massage, the best positions, and what prostate massage does (and doesn't) do for your health and mood.

What You'll Find Here

The prostate sits about two inches inside, on the front wall, and plenty of men go decades without knowing it's there. Start here if you want to find it: from the outside through the perineum, in the positions that make it easier to reach, and with an honest look at the health and mood claims you've probably seen.

3 Articles

Prostate Milking

What prostate milking is, how to do it solo or for a partner, which toys work best, and what comes out.

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Prostate milking is steady pressure on the prostate until it releases fluid, with or without an orgasm. Start with what it is, then learn how to do it solo or for a partner, which toys keep the pressure going, and what actually comes out.

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    What Makes a Good Prostate Milker?

    Fingers get tired and toys don't. This guide covers what actually matters in a prostate milker: the curve, the base, the material and the kind of motion, plus how Tomo, Thor and Vulcan each handle a milking session.

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    How to Milk a Man: A Partner's Guide to Prostate Milking

    Milking a partner's prostate is mostly patience, lube and talking while you do it. This is the giving partner's guide: how to bring it up, what to have ready, how to find the spot, which positions make it easier on your wrist, and what to do afterward.