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Tomo Come Hither Prostate Massager
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$150.00 USD
Regular price $120.00 USD$120.00
Hands-free orgasms that land exactly where you want them. Tomo's slim, tapered shaft and come-hither motion stroke your P-spot like a beckoning finger, while nine vibration modes let you start gentle and build from there. It's a prostate stimulation toy that does the work for you. Add the wireless remote, and you're fully hands-free, solo or with a partner.
Specs
- Insertable length: 3.5 in / 9.0 cm
- Thickness: 1.2 in / 3.0 cm
- Materials: Medical-grade silicone
- Run time: up to 2 hours
- Charging: USB (5.0V), full charge in about 2 hours
- Waterproof: Yes
- Wireless Remote: Optional
If you need more info on your Tomo, you can find the full product guide here.
Clean your device before and after every use: warm water with a reputable antibacterial soap, or a GIDDI-recommended toy cleaner, then pat dry with a lint-free towel and store it somewhere cool and dry. Skip any cleanser with alcohol, petrol, or acetone. And always use a water-based lube. Oil- and silicone-based formulas can irritate your skin and slowly degrade the silicone over time.
Not satisfied within 30 days of purchase? Get a full refund as a website credit that never expires. The credit covers the price you paid for the product and doesn't include shipping. Just email our customer service team at hello@mygiddi.com to start your return, and we'll send instructions.
Sale
Sale
Sale price
$150.00 USD
Regular price $120.00 USDHands-free orgasms that land exactly where you want them. Tomo's slim, tapered shaft and come-hither motion stroke your P-spot like a beckoning finger, while nine vibration modes let you start gentle and build from there. It's a prostate stimulation toy that does the work for you. Add the wireless remote, and you're fully hands-free, solo or with a partner.
Specs
- Insertable length: 3.5 in / 9.0 cm
- Thickness: 1.2 in / 3.0 cm
- Materials: Medical-grade silicone
- Run time: up to 2 hours
- Charging: USB (5.0V), full charge in about 2 hours
- Waterproof: Yes
- Wireless Remote: Optional
If you need more info on your Tomo, you can find the full product guide here.
Clean your device before and after every use: warm water with a reputable antibacterial soap, or a GIDDI-recommended toy cleaner, then pat dry with a lint-free towel and store it somewhere cool and dry. Skip any cleanser with alcohol, petrol, or acetone. And always use a water-based lube. Oil- and silicone-based formulas can irritate your skin and slowly degrade the silicone over time.
Not satisfied within 30 days of purchase? Get a full refund as a website credit that never expires. The credit covers the price you paid for the product and doesn't include shipping. Just email our customer service team at hello@mygiddi.com to start your return, and we'll send instructions.
Watch Tomo Come Hither Prostate Massager
What Is a Come Hither Prostate Massager?
A come hither prostate massager has a tip that curls forward and back once it's inside you, the same motion your finger makes when you wave someone over. That stroke lands on your prostate again and again, where a regular vibrator just buzzes in one place. Tomo's tip makes that stroke at three speeds, and a second head vibrates against your perineum at the same time. That's what people mean by a come hither toy, and it's the motion to look for in any come hither prostate toy.
Come-Hither Motion + Three Massage Speeds
The come-hither head strokes your P-spot like a beckoning finger, building targeted pressure toward a hands-free orgasm. Three speeds let you take it slow or push the pace.
Perineum Massage, Nine Vibration Modes
The second motor makes Tomo a great slim vibrating prostate massager: it presses against your perineum and works it through nine vibration modes. Inside and out, at the same time.
Hands-Free Prostate Massager with Wireless Remote
Choose the remote-controlled Tomo, and you've got a true hands-free prostate massager. Once it's in, the curve and the flared base hold Tomo against your prostate, so you can lie back with both hands free. Run every stroke and vibration mode from up to 33 feet away, and change the come-hither speed and the vibration separately. Hand it to a partner and let them take the lead, or keep the controls right on the base. Your call.
How to Use Tomo
Charge Tomo fully before your first session. The light stops flashing when it's ready.
Wash it with warm water and antibacterial soap, then pat dry.
Use plenty of water-based lube, on Tomo and on you. Skip oils and creams.
Ease the tip in slowly, curved toward your stomach.
Start on the slowest speed and build from there. Never force it, and stop if it hurts.
Come-Hither, Rotating or Vibrating?
Three GIDDI massagers, three ways to move. Here’s how they compare.
| Motion | How it moves | What you feel | Pick it if you… | GIDDI massager |
|---|---|---|---|---|
| Come-hither Tomo | The tip curls forward and back inside you, like a finger saying "come here." | A firm, repeated stroke on one spot: your prostate. | Want a focused, finger-like stroke, or this is your first prostate massager. | TomoYou're viewing |
| Rotating Thor | The head turns a full 360° circle inside you, at three speeds. | Pressure that keeps moving across your prostate, plus a vibrating base on your perineum. | Have used vibrating toys before and want more movement and more fullness. | ThorShop Thor → |
| Vibrating Vulcan | Nothing moves. The toy buzzes in place. | A steady buzz through the whole area. Vulcan adds a built-in cock ring and scrotum ring, so you can wear it hands-free. | Want something wearable for partner play, or stimulation in more than one place at once. | VulcanShop Vulcan → |
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FAQs
The internal head curls in a beckoning-finger motion across your prostate, at 3 speeds. It's a stroke rather than a buzz, and that difference is what gets results for men who've tried a vibrating toy and felt nothing.
The internal head curls in a beckoning-finger motion across your prostate, at 3 speeds. It's a stroke rather than a buzz, and that difference is what gets results for men who've tried a vibrating toy and felt nothing.
It's the one we point first-timers to. Three inches insertable, 1.25 inches thick, slim and tapered. Start here and move up to Thor later if you want more.
Yes. The internal come-hither head and the external perineum head run on separate motors, so you can run internal only, external only, or both at once.
Get the remote if you want to stay fully hands-free or plan to hand control to a partner. It's $20 more. Without it, you change speeds with the buttons on the base, which means reaching down mid-session.
The flared base stops over-insertion, and the shape nestles it against your prostate. Most men find it holds. If it shifts, lying on your back or side and engaging your pelvic floor sorts it out.
Up to two hours per charge, and a full charge takes about two hours. The light flashes while it charges and goes solid when it's full. The remote runs on a replaceable CR2032 coin battery.
There isn't one anymore. Tomo II was the name for Tomo with the wireless remote. It's now sold as Tomo + Remote: same massager, same come-hither motion, remote in the box.
US orders over $99 ship free via standard service, arriving in about two to three days (orders that fall under $99 after discounts and all international orders don't qualify). You'll get a tracking number by email when it ships. We can't cover lost or stolen packages, so use a secure delivery point, or add Checkout+ for full coverage.
Every order ships in a plain brown box with "Fulfillment Center" as the return address. Nothing on the outside hints at what's inside.
Buy direct from mygiddi.com, and you can return within 30 days of receipt for a website credit that never expires (the credit covers the product price, not shipping). Email us at hello@mygiddi.com to start, and we'll send instructions.
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B
What a great product! I had tried others and they were ...eh. Kinda worked, but took a lot of additional work. My first time with the Tomo II was a bit of a learning curve ...but in a good way... Figuring out the right combination of "come hither" and vibration that really got me going was part of the fun. Now, all I need is the quiet time to be able to fully relax into it. Kudos to the designers. Fit and finish quality is superb and operation is spot on!
Hi Brent, we're thrilled to hear you enjoyed the Tomo II! Thanks for sharing your experience and kind words about the design and quality. Enjoy your relaxation time!
M
It is very comfortable and easy to use.
Hi Michael, we're so glad to hear you find the Tomo Beginner Bundle comfortable and easy to use! Thanks for sharing your feedback.
R
I was hesitant at first, but it became very pleasurable. The hands - free design a must. just lay back and relax. best self-gratification ever
Hi there,
Thank you so much for taking the time to leave such a positive review for our Tomo Come Hither Prostate Massager. We're thrilled to hear that it provided you with the most satisfying experience ever! We understand that trying something new can be nerve-wracking, but we're glad it turned out to be a pleasurable one for you. The hands-free design is definitely a game-changer. Just sit back, relax, and let the Tomo do its magic. We're happy to have helped enhance your self-gratification experience. Thank you for choosing our product - it means a lot to us.
Take care,
Team GIDDI
M
The size of this massager is perfect for beginners, but it doesn't hit my prostate while I'm laying back. I have to push it all the way in to get the feeling of it pressing against it. However, the vibrations are great
Hi there,
Thank you for your review of our Tomo Come Hither Prostate Massager. We appreciate your feedback and are happy to hear that the size of the massager is perfect for beginners. We understand that it may not hit your prostate while laying back and we apologize for any inconvenience this may have caused. Our team at GIDDI is always looking for ways to improve our products and we will definitely take your feedback into consideration. We are glad to hear that you enjoy the vibrations. Thank you for choosing GIDDI and happy massaging!
-Team GIDDI
B
Im new to prostate massage. This feels amazing. I use it for BPH problems. I feel like it helps with with so much. Blood flow for better erections that last longer. I feel less pressure from my prostate. My hemorrhoids are gone.It may be mental but I feel like I have more energy. I highly recommend for younger men before their prostate is enlarged.
Hi there,
Thank you for taking the time to leave a review for our Tomo II Come Hither Prostate Massager. We are so happy to hear that you are finding it to be a great addition to your routine and that it has helped with your BPH problems. We are also glad to hear that you have noticed improved blood flow and energy levels. Thank you for recommending it to younger men as well. Keep enjoying the benefits and let us know if you have any further questions or concerns.
Best,
Team GIDDI
m
I was hesitant at first. I've tried similar style ones from another company and the finger motion broke rather quickly. This one seems to be much more durable. The motor functions are really basic, it would benefit from some creativity. That being said the motor was decently strong. I was definitely left wanting more at the max setting. Overall a solid addition to my collection.
Hi there,
Thank you for taking the time to leave a review for our Tomo Come Hither Prostate Massager. We're glad to hear that you found the toy to be durable and the motor to be strong. We appreciate your feedback about the motor functions and will definitely take that into consideration for future improvements. We hope this toy continues to be a solid addition to your collection.
D
This was my first time experiencing a hands free or vibrating prostate massager. I wish had bought one years ago! My second time using my tomo was over an hour of multiple oragasms. I tried multiple positions and the Tomo delivered.
Hi there! Thank you for taking the time to share your positive experience with the Tomo Come Hither Prostate Massager. We're thrilled to hear that it delivered such amazing results for you! It's never too late to try something new and we're glad you took the plunge. We hope you continue to enjoy many more satisfying sessions with the Tomo. Happy exploring!
J
My Sub and I have been amazed at how well the Tomo ll works! I have acheived the most explosive climaxes with this product.
Hi there!
Thank you for leaving such a positive review for the Tomo II Come Hither Prostate Massager. We're thrilled to hear that you and your partner have been amazed by its performance and that you've experienced explosive climaxes with it. We hope you continue to enjoy using the product. If you have any questions or concerns, please don't hesitate to reach out to us.
Happy exploring!
Best,
Customer Service Team
T
There's not much to say except that it works, especially with a bit of patience and really focusing on the experience. Hits the P-spot better than cheaper toys I've tried. Happy to recommend!
We love hearing that it’s working just the way it should! ✨
Taking time and really tuning into the experience makes all the difference — and we’re so glad you felt that. Thank you for the kind words and for recommending us!
– Team GIDDI
C
The transition from base to insertable is an odd shape that doesn't lend itself to a stable orientation. It suffers the usual problem of low torque for the come hither at low speed, but speeds 2 and 3 are nice. I haven't decided if the other patterns make sense.
The vibration has a nice rumble on the lowest setting, and the battery life hasn't left me wanting.
On balance, pretty good toy. Worth it at the sale price.
Thank you so much for taking the time to share such detailed feedback! ✨
We’re glad to hear you’re enjoying the vibration and battery life, and we truly appreciate your insights on design and performance. Honest reviews like yours help us keep improving and creating even better experiences.
– Team GIDDI
B
I had been debating on buying this for awhile. I could never decide which model to get. Thanks to a promo I went with the Tomo... why did I wait so long to buy this? I definitely recommend it to everyone. It definitely got in there and got the job done!!
We love hearing this! 🔥
So glad you finally gave Tomo a try — and that it delivered exactly what you were hoping for. Thank you for trusting us (and for spreading the word)! Enjoy every moment.
– Team GIDDI
O
I recently purchased the Tomo II, after purchasing the Vulcan Plug about six weeks earlier.
My experience with both devices is that after insertion, the Vulcan Plug sits safely in place. The Tomo II, after insertion, does not stay firmly in place. In my opinion, this is due to the odd design at the bottom of the Tomo II, both on the internal arm, which provides the come hither motion, and on the tight bend on the external head, designed to stimulate the perineum. I simply have difficulty inserting the device far enough in order to stay securely in place.
This is my experience, and may be due to the way my body is shaped, rather than the way the device is designed, but I am of average hight, weight, and built.
As to the actual stimulation, I prefer the stronger vibration of the Vulcan Plug to the somewhat weaker vibrations of the Tomo II. The come hither motion of the Tomo II is definitely pleasant, but the problem with the fit distracts from being able to totally enjoy the experience.
While I can wear the Vulcan Plug during solo play, as well as during vigorous play with my wife, the Tomo II, for me, is better suited for solo play. If I did want to use the Tomo II during partner play, I would have to remain passive, and just focus on receiving pleasure from the device, as well as from my wife.
I am giving the Tomo II, 4 out of 5 stars. This is due to my difficulty with keeping the device securely in place. While the vibrations, for my liking, could be a little stronger, the come hither stimulation is definitely pleasant.
My personal wish is for Giddi to create a Vulcan Plug, that features the come hither motion of the Tomo II, for a truly unique experience.
D
I have never used a Anal stimulator before but i saw this " Come Hither" Prostate Massager and thought i'd give it a ride, hoping to find a new safe Anal experience. Anal play has not been my sexual choice but have been starting to be more open about self gratification The Tomo II has hit its mark and is opening a new sexual experience for me to explore in self stimulation .
Thank you for trusting us with such an important first step. We’re honored to be part of your journey!
our products was designed to offer a safe, comfortable, and deeply satisfying intro to prostate play, and we're so glad it’s helping you explore new sensations in a way that feels good and empowering.
Take your time, enjoy the discovery, and know that we’re here anytime you have questions or need recommendations. Here’s to unlocking new pleasure, your way!
— Team GIDDI
R
As the saying goes: "different stokes for different folks." I think some folks would rate the TOMO 2 as a 5 and others like me as a 2. If there are plans for a TOMO 3, I would suggest flattening the perinium massage portion of the Tomo2 and lengthening it to touch the scrotum.
Thank you for your honest feedback — we really appreciate you taking the time to share your experience with the TOMO 2.
You're absolutely right: pleasure is personal, and what works incredibly for some might not hit the same for others. Your suggestion about adjusting the perineum massager to better reach the scrotum is thoughtful and genuinely helpful. We’ve noted it for our product team to consider for future iterations like a potential TOMO 3.
If you’d like help finding a toy that better suits your anatomy or preferences, feel free to reach out — we’re always happy to help guide you to the right fit.
— Team GIDDI
A
Love this product! It’s perfect for beginners. I would recommend getting yourself one too!
Thank you so much for your wonderful feedback!
P
Tomo ll is truly the best! The come hither is my absolute favorite
Thank you for your feedback!
Y
Great product. Good usage with one charging but it is more for beginner to intermediate users. If you are experienced user, you may need another one
Thanks for the feedback!
K
I was sceptical about the reviews of the Tomo II and questioning the auto finder before my purchase. Let's just say this was way beyond what I thought it could do. I love the Tomo II and if you are sceptical about the price, about the device, I guarantee you will love it. Give it a chance you won't be sorry.
Thanks, Keith! Good to hear that you loved it!
N
Takes a little getting used to but once you get going great experience
We appreciate your feedback!
G
This is my favorite toy...hands down... and hands free.
Thanks, Glenn!
A
Hits the right spot ! Multiple orgasms
Glad you loved it!
J
I've been researching prostate massagers for a while now and decided to give the Tomo a try. Being a virgin at this, I was nervous about the size but once I relaxed it slipped right in and OH MY! What a feeling!! It was truly amazing!! I also love Giddi's website...very professional and great information!
J
I used to think the Thor was the best massager I ever used but now, having used the Tomo I have to say I like it better, and I still like the Thor better than other brands
So glad you loved it, Jay! Thank you.
C
This massager is phenomenal! I had toyed with the amusing idea of using one for years and put it off and off and off. Truly amazing experience! So glad I finally did this!
The wait was worth it! Thank you.