Prostate Massager Experience from a Top's Perspective


Hi, I’m Big Dipper — a gay rapper and performer living in Los Angeles. You can find me @bigdipperjelly on Instagram and Twitter or search “big dipper rapper” on YouTube to see my music videos. My music is fun, upbeat party music with a focus on celebrating all bodies and sexualities… but mostly my body and my sexuality lol. On stage, I wear outrageous outfits: spandex jumpsuits, thongs, and sparkly harnesses, and I rap about sex, queer identity, and all around bedroom kink. In my life, I’m a little more subdued. You won’t find me at the grocery store wearing a neon g-string and rhyming about how to take a dick.

That being said, there are parts of my personality that translate into my preferences in the bedroom. I like being in control, and though I have experience bottoming, I am way more comfortable as a top. I like the feeling that I’m the one “doing the fucking” not the one “getting fucked”. I’ve bottomed a few times and it didn’t really work for me. That’s why I’ve shied away from prostate massage and prostate massagers in the past, though recently I’ve been very interested in exploring my bottom side.

I was introduced to TOMO by GIDDI and asked to be a GIDDI brand ambassador by its co-founders. I loved the concept of it being an intimate health and wellness brand, and the sleek, professional aesthetic of the branding, but I had to try the product before I agreed to promote it, obviously. So a few weeks ago, I decided it was time for me and my new TOMO to get to know one another. I grabbed the bottle of Ride Bodyworxx Lube, and convinced myself everything would be okay lol…. and let me tell you it was way more than okay.  Honestly, I was very pleasantly surprised. Up until this point, I just thought my body wasn’t really set up to receive anything… if you know what I mean. The TOMO was the perfect shape and fit in comfortably, and almost immediately I began to feel the positive effects. And I loved that I could control it. I could move it where I wanted, turn the “come hither” motion on and off, and change the vibration settings. It was perfect.

If you’re a top like me, my recommendation is try the TOMO and don’t be scared. It was a really special moment to have with myself, to reveal another layer of my sexuality.  And I look forward to sharing the TOMO with a partner. It’s totally top approved.


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